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 Insecurity refers to anxiety, uncertainty, or a lack of confidence or assurance in oneself or a situation. In today's world, we have become extremely dependent on external validation and assurance. We often give the key to our emotions to other people. This not only gives us self-doubt but also makes us feel vulnerable about ourselves. External validation basically means depending on superficial means to have a sense of security. We often let other people in our life have the authority to make us feel bad about ourselves which not only affects us mentally but also emotionally.  It's normal to feel good about yourself when someone compliments you, but that doesn't really mean that you should be depending on anyone else in order to feel better about yourself. If we look deeper into this matter then it's not us, it's the people around us who make us feel that we can't be worthy enough or there's something in us that needs to be fixed. However, what needs to be...

You know how surprising it is that how our society has always made women feel that she's not worthy enough. It is the mindset that by default we're meant to believe that a woman can't be self-reliant, that they'll always need a man in their life to depend on. She's convinced that a man is supposed to be there for her in all the phases of her life, be it her father, brother, husband, or son. This thinking is fitted in people's minds by default due to the sort of society we are part of. If we look closely into the matter, we will realize how inferior we make the women of our society feel. One great example of this inferior and derogatory mindset is the Dowry system. So dowry is a term used for the money, property or any sort of expensive gifts that the bride brings to her husband on their marriage. Now any sane person will be against this sort of system because why should only the bride's family go through all the burden of buying expensive gifts, or money tha...

Recently there has been a rape case in Kolkata, India. A trainee doctor who completed her 36-hour shift was raped brutally and then murdered. Initially, it was said to be a suicide case but later on, it was claimed that it was a case of gang rape where the victim was sexually assaulted many times, and then murdered. Isn't the workplace considered to be the safest place for a person other than their home clearly in a society in which we are living, women are not supposed to be secure anywhere even at their homes. Let’s focus on the mental and psychological development of the citizens.  Instead of working towards DIGITAL INDIA let’s first aim for a SENSIBLE INDIA.  At one end where India is progressing in terms of technology, business, economy, and leading so many companies all over the world, the basics are where we need to improve. The mindset, the thinking, the perspective, all these things are improving at a really slow pace. People need to be made aware of basic manners, th...

Topics like feminism, patriarchy, societal mindset, etc. have always been controversial. But before diving into the actual problem, let's just understand the real and actual meaning of feminism and why patriarchy needs to be smashed in our society .  Many people in our society often relate feminism with hatred of women towards all men, however, it's literally the complete opposite of it. Feminism is nothing about hating men, it's about equal rights and opportunities for both men and women. On the other side patriarchy refers to a world that is run by men, it believes that men are the superior ones and women should be homely and provide for their children. If being a feminist had been anything related to making men feel inferior, then there wouldn't have been so many famous, highly educated, and knowledgeable men who are proud to call themselves feminists. And the concept of patriarchy has always been so glorified and perpetual in our society that women tend to mold them...

 It feels surreal how our generation, also known as Genz, has access to many new things, concepts, and platforms to showcase themselves. However, even after being a generation that has always been up there, has opinions, takes care of themselves, and likes to invest in their lifestyle and their standard of living, one thing that's lacking in most of us I feel is 'AUTHENTICITY'. No matter how well dressed up we always are, and how productive we want to be in our day, one thing we always leave behind is being ourselves. All of us are stuck in a rat race, trying to be better than the other one, continuously comparing our abilities to others.  Everyone needs to realize that it's the imperfections that make us unique and different. It's not always necessary to put that makeup on, because it's the acne scars, the pigmentation, and the texture that makes us beautiful. Just because another person has some more knowledge than you doesn't mean that you're dumb, yo...

 You know how nowadays all of us are always so obsessed with the places we want to hang out with our friends or partners, and it's even exciting to try out new places. However sometimes in this constant race of trying out new places all the time, we tend to forget the people around us and the value they hold in our lives.  We should keep a thing in mind that what matters the most is that we spend time with the people for whom we are putting so much effort to take time out from our busy schedules to meet. You know we always try to do everything for our special ones in order to make them feel significant and unique, but what we don't realize is that often is the most precious gift one would love to achieve and can be gifted regardless of the occasion is the time you spend with them. And by time I mean a time when you are paying full attention to them, a time without clicking pictures, without that phone, and without any distractions, it's just you guys.  In the end, it's ...